"Be aware of wonder. Live a balanced life — learn some and think some and draw and paint and sing and dance and play and work every day some." – Robert Fulghum
About Robert Fulghum
American author Robert Fulghum is best known for his book All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten, which dominated the New York Times best-seller list for nearly two years. He was born in 1937 in Texas. In his youth he worked at odd jobs, including ditchdigger, ranch hand, and singing cowboy. After a short career at IBM, he became a Unitarian minister. He has written eight best-selling books of essays. His anecdotes of everyday life encapsulate his down-home philosophy. He lives in Seattle and Crete.
Sunday, May 3, 2009
Monday, April 27, 2009
4/27/09 Genius words...
"Any man who can drive safely while kissing a pretty girl is simply not giving the kiss the attention it deserves." ~ Albert Einstein
Hahahahahaha!
I enjoyed that.
CM
Hahahahahaha!
I enjoyed that.
CM
Friday, April 24, 2009
4/24/09 Need it / Got it!
WOW! Three powerful quotes have crossed my path today that are so pertinent to the intricacies of my daily life of late that I had to share them.
This first one is my favorite:
"Our real blessings often appear to us in the shape of pains, losses and disappointments, but let us have patience and we soon shall see them in their proper figures." – Joseph Addison
About Joseph Addison
English politician and writer Joseph Addison is remembered as a cofounder, along with his friend Richard Steele, of The Spectator, one of the first magazines to cover literature and manners. He was born in 1672 in Wiltshire. He spent four years traveling in Europe, studying politics and writing poetry, and became a Commissioner of Appeals on his return to England. His shyness made public office difficult. His most famous work is the play Cato, a tragedy about ancient Rome. He died in 1719.
Here's the second one:
"If you follow your bliss, you put yourself on a kind of track that has been there all the while waiting for you, and the life that you ought to be living is the one you are living." --Joseph Campbell
This quote falls in with the thing everyone's mother told them: "Do what yo love, and you'll never work a day in your life."
Lucky me! I found it. I chose it. I do it well. And don't kid yourself; I work hard at it, but it's joyful work. Did you read that last sentence? It's joyful work, not the horrid, emotionally exhausting kind that beats one down and ages the spirit.
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Life update:
After much soul-searching thought and input from my round table of girlfriends, (Barb, Judy, Maryann, and Andrea), I decided to take the full time position here in town and give up the part time one - uh, out of town. That way, I'll be assured of my weekly income with no worries or anxiety.
With my rainy day savings, I plan to pay off everything - well, except the Audi, of course. But I am going to refinance that puppy. Goodness, I can save half my monthy outlay on that every month and pay it off sooner if it suits me.
While I am working my cool new 8-to-5 hours (yippee) I plan to do my research and due diligence on this wonderful new business idea I have. If I can cross all the T's and dot all the I's well enough, I'll have it up and running in about six months time. Then I'll be able to work from anywhere in the world, and I'll begin my long over-due semi-retirement. WOOT!
My friends, Barb and Judy, want to partner up with me in the venture, so I need to give that thought - so far, it's looking like a win/win idea. I need to research that as well. But I've always enjoyed research, so I'm having fun with it.
Just in case none of this pans out, I, uh, purchased a lottery ticket. The mega millions this week is 150 million dollars. I figure, after I win it, I can take as long as I like to make any more decisions. Hahahahaha!
I wonder if my old friend, Jeanne, has a garden with her new digs. It's spring in Jersey just now, and the balmy air wafts like angel whispers across the face carrying a delicate blend of magnolia and azalea mixed with the refreshing hint of spring rain. Yellow and white daffodils and pink and lavender hyacinth are about to make way for the rainbow of tulips we planted two years ago. The yard is awash with pastel petals blown from the magnolias and azaleas. Buds have begun to yawn and stretch and peer out from their hiding places on the branches of the dogwood that shades the deck and lilacs are following suit in the garden below.
*sigh* I'm going to go out and sit on the deck and do some writing.
More later.
CM
This first one is my favorite:
"Our real blessings often appear to us in the shape of pains, losses and disappointments, but let us have patience and we soon shall see them in their proper figures." – Joseph Addison
About Joseph Addison
English politician and writer Joseph Addison is remembered as a cofounder, along with his friend Richard Steele, of The Spectator, one of the first magazines to cover literature and manners. He was born in 1672 in Wiltshire. He spent four years traveling in Europe, studying politics and writing poetry, and became a Commissioner of Appeals on his return to England. His shyness made public office difficult. His most famous work is the play Cato, a tragedy about ancient Rome. He died in 1719.
Here's the second one:
"If you follow your bliss, you put yourself on a kind of track that has been there all the while waiting for you, and the life that you ought to be living is the one you are living." --Joseph Campbell
This quote falls in with the thing everyone's mother told them: "Do what yo love, and you'll never work a day in your life."
Lucky me! I found it. I chose it. I do it well. And don't kid yourself; I work hard at it, but it's joyful work. Did you read that last sentence? It's joyful work, not the horrid, emotionally exhausting kind that beats one down and ages the spirit.
Life update:
After much soul-searching thought and input from my round table of girlfriends, (Barb, Judy, Maryann, and Andrea), I decided to take the full time position here in town and give up the part time one - uh, out of town. That way, I'll be assured of my weekly income with no worries or anxiety.
With my rainy day savings, I plan to pay off everything - well, except the Audi, of course. But I am going to refinance that puppy. Goodness, I can save half my monthy outlay on that every month and pay it off sooner if it suits me.
While I am working my cool new 8-to-5 hours (yippee) I plan to do my research and due diligence on this wonderful new business idea I have. If I can cross all the T's and dot all the I's well enough, I'll have it up and running in about six months time. Then I'll be able to work from anywhere in the world, and I'll begin my long over-due semi-retirement. WOOT!
My friends, Barb and Judy, want to partner up with me in the venture, so I need to give that thought - so far, it's looking like a win/win idea. I need to research that as well. But I've always enjoyed research, so I'm having fun with it.
Just in case none of this pans out, I, uh, purchased a lottery ticket. The mega millions this week is 150 million dollars. I figure, after I win it, I can take as long as I like to make any more decisions. Hahahahaha!
I wonder if my old friend, Jeanne, has a garden with her new digs. It's spring in Jersey just now, and the balmy air wafts like angel whispers across the face carrying a delicate blend of magnolia and azalea mixed with the refreshing hint of spring rain. Yellow and white daffodils and pink and lavender hyacinth are about to make way for the rainbow of tulips we planted two years ago. The yard is awash with pastel petals blown from the magnolias and azaleas. Buds have begun to yawn and stretch and peer out from their hiding places on the branches of the dogwood that shades the deck and lilacs are following suit in the garden below.
*sigh* I'm going to go out and sit on the deck and do some writing.
More later.
CM
Thursday, April 23, 2009
4/23/09 Gutty Spark!
True silence is the rest of the mind; it is to the spirit what sleep is to the body, nourishment and refreshment." – William Penn
About William Penn
William Penn is remembered as the founder of Pennsylvania; the democratic government he set up became the model for the United States Constitution. He was born in 1644 in England. After he was arrested several times for preaching Quaker ideals, he decided to found a settlement in America. He drew up the "Great Treaty" with the Delaware Indians to ensure they were paid fairly for their land and toured Europe marketing the new colony. He died in 1718.
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SCORPIO (By Rick Levine) - Thursday, Apr 23rd, 2009 -- The Sun's alignment with intense Pluto, your key planet, allows you to move forward with the certainty that comes from accepting your place in the world. But this isn't about feeling powerless or victimized; it's about creating the very waves you are riding. You are among the movers and shakers now, so make something special happen while you can.
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Daily Word: Intuition - in·tu·i·tion (nt-shn, -ty-)
noun.
1. a. The act or faculty of knowing or sensing without the use of rational processes; immediate cognition. See Synonyms at reason.
1. b. Knowledge gained by the use of this faculty; a perceptive insight.
2. A sense of something not evident or deducible; an impression.
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FROM -[Middle English intuicioun, insight, from Late Latin intuiti, intuitin-, a looking at, from Latin intuitus, a look, from past participle of intur, to look at, contemplate : in-, on; see in-2 + tur, to look at.]
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I was driving along this morning, going about my daily errands and routine, when, out of the blue, I had what I immediately knew was a wonderful idea for an article. It did occur to me that I should pull over briefly to jot it down so I wouldn't forget it. Traffic was unusually heavy and, not wanting to become delayed, I elected to ignore my instinct. Damnit-all, I forgot it! Color me annoyed. (Why is it, i am in my second half century of life and have not learned yet to listen to my gut? - LOL)
So now, I'm trying to trace my morning thought patterns from when I woke up in an effort to try and grasp that elusive idea. Thus far, I have remained unsuccessful - which explains why I am writing about it. The notion of listening to one's inner voice - but instinct - first thought, is going to be my NEW idea for an article. HA!
Oh... my gut tells me I might want to hold off on the last-laughing until I see whether or not the replacement article is print worthy!
*sigh*
CM
About William Penn
William Penn is remembered as the founder of Pennsylvania; the democratic government he set up became the model for the United States Constitution. He was born in 1644 in England. After he was arrested several times for preaching Quaker ideals, he decided to found a settlement in America. He drew up the "Great Treaty" with the Delaware Indians to ensure they were paid fairly for their land and toured Europe marketing the new colony. He died in 1718.
SCORPIO (By Rick Levine) - Thursday, Apr 23rd, 2009 -- The Sun's alignment with intense Pluto, your key planet, allows you to move forward with the certainty that comes from accepting your place in the world. But this isn't about feeling powerless or victimized; it's about creating the very waves you are riding. You are among the movers and shakers now, so make something special happen while you can.
Daily Word: Intuition - in·tu·i·tion (nt-shn, -ty-)
noun.
1. a. The act or faculty of knowing or sensing without the use of rational processes; immediate cognition. See Synonyms at reason.
1. b. Knowledge gained by the use of this faculty; a perceptive insight.
2. A sense of something not evident or deducible; an impression.
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FROM -[Middle English intuicioun, insight, from Late Latin intuiti, intuitin-, a looking at, from Latin intuitus, a look, from past participle of intur, to look at, contemplate : in-, on; see in-2 + tur, to look at.]
I was driving along this morning, going about my daily errands and routine, when, out of the blue, I had what I immediately knew was a wonderful idea for an article. It did occur to me that I should pull over briefly to jot it down so I wouldn't forget it. Traffic was unusually heavy and, not wanting to become delayed, I elected to ignore my instinct. Damnit-all, I forgot it! Color me annoyed. (Why is it, i am in my second half century of life and have not learned yet to listen to my gut? - LOL)
So now, I'm trying to trace my morning thought patterns from when I woke up in an effort to try and grasp that elusive idea. Thus far, I have remained unsuccessful - which explains why I am writing about it. The notion of listening to one's inner voice - but instinct - first thought, is going to be my NEW idea for an article. HA!
Oh... my gut tells me I might want to hold off on the last-laughing until I see whether or not the replacement article is print worthy!
*sigh*
CM
Sunday, April 19, 2009
4/19/09 Root Memories
"Inspiration follows aspiration." – Rabindranath Tagore
About Rabindranath Tagore
Indian poet and philosopher Rabindranath Tagore, a contemporary of Mahatma Gandhi, was the first Asian to garner a Nobel Prize, which he won in 1913 for literature. He was born in India in 1861, the youngest of 13 children. He wrote poetry, stories, travelogues, dramas, essays, and songs. In the West, he was seen as a mystical figure and his fame faded with time, but his legacy lives on in India, where his work has become part of the fabric of the culture. He died in 1941.
This quote reminds me of how and why I decided to become writer.
But I have a busy day ahead, so I'll fill it in later when I can *ahem* write it at my leisure!
CM
Thinking about Ricky today.
HB old friend!
About Rabindranath Tagore
Indian poet and philosopher Rabindranath Tagore, a contemporary of Mahatma Gandhi, was the first Asian to garner a Nobel Prize, which he won in 1913 for literature. He was born in India in 1861, the youngest of 13 children. He wrote poetry, stories, travelogues, dramas, essays, and songs. In the West, he was seen as a mystical figure and his fame faded with time, but his legacy lives on in India, where his work has become part of the fabric of the culture. He died in 1941.
This quote reminds me of how and why I decided to become writer.
But I have a busy day ahead, so I'll fill it in later when I can *ahem* write it at my leisure!
CM
Thinking about Ricky today.
HB old friend!
Saturday, April 18, 2009
4/18/09 Trudging Along...
From: Quote of the Day
"Calmness is the cradle of power." – Josiah Gilbert Holland
About Josiah Gilbert Holland
American writer Josiah Gilbert Holland is best known as the founder of Scribner's Monthly. He was born in 1819 in Massachusetts. He briefly became a doctor but, dissatisfied, turned to teaching. As superintendent, he turned the public schools in Vicksburg, Mississippi, around in less than two years. He began his writing career at age 30. His most famous work is the melodramatic long-form poem, "Bitter Sweet," about New England life and the nature of good and evil. He died in 1881.
This particular quote really sits well with me today. Had I not exhibited calm this week when all hell broke loose, I have no idea how everything would have gone. Funnily, enough, it was a quote from Rudy Giuliani that I'd been thinking of. "When everything around you seems out of control, become the calmest person in the room and you will be the one in control." It helped.
A Word for the day: longueur \long-GUR\, noun:
A dull and tedious passage in a book, play, musical composition, or the like.
Longueur is from French (where it means "length"), ultimately deriving from Latin longus, "long," which is also the source of English long.
Okay, it's Saturday! What day for a daydream! Temps in the 70's and not a cloud in the sky! Hyacinths and Daff's are at the height of their magnificence, and the aroma is sheer delight.
Interesting bit of news: we have a coyote in town. Seems it has been enjoying window shopping on Main Street and has also been seen walking down one of the side streets in our neighborhood (1 block over). We've had calls from the police department to keep the wee ones inside unless accompanied by an adult, (which we do anyway, but still, it's a daunting bit of news, especially when we all want to be outside. So no swings or sandbox without mom or dad until the thing is caught and taken back to its habitat.
Fun bit of news: I bought a mini laptop this afternoon; a little blue Aspire. I went into Staples for a new mouse as the old one had definitely seen better days. It was dying a slow death and I decided, since it doesn't owe me anything, i'd let it rest in peace. I'll give it a very nice burial. As for the new mouse, it's a fast little thing! Really makes a difference. As for the Acer, well, we'll see how it goes. I'd been keeping my eye on it for weeks, and today the price was just too good to pass up. I like that it fits into my bag and the wireless wand keeps me in touch no matter where I am. It's perfect for those times when I have time to be on line and I am not at home. I'll certainly post my "Acered" likes and dislikes as time goes by.
All for now,
CM
"Calmness is the cradle of power." – Josiah Gilbert Holland
About Josiah Gilbert Holland
American writer Josiah Gilbert Holland is best known as the founder of Scribner's Monthly. He was born in 1819 in Massachusetts. He briefly became a doctor but, dissatisfied, turned to teaching. As superintendent, he turned the public schools in Vicksburg, Mississippi, around in less than two years. He began his writing career at age 30. His most famous work is the melodramatic long-form poem, "Bitter Sweet," about New England life and the nature of good and evil. He died in 1881.
This particular quote really sits well with me today. Had I not exhibited calm this week when all hell broke loose, I have no idea how everything would have gone. Funnily, enough, it was a quote from Rudy Giuliani that I'd been thinking of. "When everything around you seems out of control, become the calmest person in the room and you will be the one in control." It helped.
A Word for the day: longueur \long-GUR\, noun:
A dull and tedious passage in a book, play, musical composition, or the like.
Longueur is from French (where it means "length"), ultimately deriving from Latin longus, "long," which is also the source of English long.
Okay, it's Saturday! What day for a daydream! Temps in the 70's and not a cloud in the sky! Hyacinths and Daff's are at the height of their magnificence, and the aroma is sheer delight.
Interesting bit of news: we have a coyote in town. Seems it has been enjoying window shopping on Main Street and has also been seen walking down one of the side streets in our neighborhood (1 block over). We've had calls from the police department to keep the wee ones inside unless accompanied by an adult, (which we do anyway, but still, it's a daunting bit of news, especially when we all want to be outside. So no swings or sandbox without mom or dad until the thing is caught and taken back to its habitat.
Fun bit of news: I bought a mini laptop this afternoon; a little blue Aspire. I went into Staples for a new mouse as the old one had definitely seen better days. It was dying a slow death and I decided, since it doesn't owe me anything, i'd let it rest in peace. I'll give it a very nice burial. As for the new mouse, it's a fast little thing! Really makes a difference. As for the Acer, well, we'll see how it goes. I'd been keeping my eye on it for weeks, and today the price was just too good to pass up. I like that it fits into my bag and the wireless wand keeps me in touch no matter where I am. It's perfect for those times when I have time to be on line and I am not at home. I'll certainly post my "Acered" likes and dislikes as time goes by.
All for now,
CM
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
4/15/09 Just DO It!
outré \oo-TRAY\, adjective: Unconventional; eccentric; bizarre.
Outré comes from French, from the past participle of outer, "to exaggerate, to go beyond," from Latin ultra, "beyond."
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Okay. Decision made. I'm going for the business plan. if ever there was a time to start up this idea I'm convinced it's now! Why I was pussy-footin' around, is beyond me. So here I go! More on that once copyrights and pending patents are in place. Suffice it to say that everyone whose expert advice I've sought in the decision making process has been bowled over by the idea and wants to contribute to the start up to be a part of it. Talk about your affirmation and encouragement! When folks want to hand over their money, it says they have a degree of faith the idea is sound and the person who will pilot the venture, in this case - Moi, is the one to head it all up. Then again, maybe it just means they're all as crazy as I am!
Just for fun and entertainment, I often read Rick Levine's astrological report for my sign. Today's provided a bit of fun and whimsey at our breakfast table, as it read thusly: SCORPIO: Wednesday, Apr 15th, 2009 -- There's no stopping you today because the emotionally restrained Capricorn Moon enables you to conserve your energy while still demonstrating your creative brilliance. You can get away with being totally unconventional now, for even your most radical behavior will somehow appear conservative -- even if it's not. Take a risk and walk on the wild side; you'll be glad you did.
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On another note, Gabriella has given me the go ahead to plan the summer workshops, which delights me to no end, and Publishing Place will grow by leaps and bounds.
My attentions need to be directed to the Novel Workshop and adding more to Chapter eight. It's all good. I'm on fire just now.
* * *
The launch of Helen's Place proved a grand success over Easter, and I'm so overjoyed. I feel like my old self for the first time since she passed away in November! It's wonderful knowing she's smiling down on it with the notion she inspired this and I can see her blushing and shaking her head at having her name attached to this lovely outreach program! For those of us who will always miss her, I suppose it's a way of having her near...
CM
Outré comes from French, from the past participle of outer, "to exaggerate, to go beyond," from Latin ultra, "beyond."
Okay. Decision made. I'm going for the business plan. if ever there was a time to start up this idea I'm convinced it's now! Why I was pussy-footin' around, is beyond me. So here I go! More on that once copyrights and pending patents are in place. Suffice it to say that everyone whose expert advice I've sought in the decision making process has been bowled over by the idea and wants to contribute to the start up to be a part of it. Talk about your affirmation and encouragement! When folks want to hand over their money, it says they have a degree of faith the idea is sound and the person who will pilot the venture, in this case - Moi, is the one to head it all up. Then again, maybe it just means they're all as crazy as I am!
Just for fun and entertainment, I often read Rick Levine's astrological report for my sign. Today's provided a bit of fun and whimsey at our breakfast table, as it read thusly: SCORPIO: Wednesday, Apr 15th, 2009 -- There's no stopping you today because the emotionally restrained Capricorn Moon enables you to conserve your energy while still demonstrating your creative brilliance. You can get away with being totally unconventional now, for even your most radical behavior will somehow appear conservative -- even if it's not. Take a risk and walk on the wild side; you'll be glad you did.
On another note, Gabriella has given me the go ahead to plan the summer workshops, which delights me to no end, and Publishing Place will grow by leaps and bounds.
My attentions need to be directed to the Novel Workshop and adding more to Chapter eight. It's all good. I'm on fire just now.
The launch of Helen's Place proved a grand success over Easter, and I'm so overjoyed. I feel like my old self for the first time since she passed away in November! It's wonderful knowing she's smiling down on it with the notion she inspired this and I can see her blushing and shaking her head at having her name attached to this lovely outreach program! For those of us who will always miss her, I suppose it's a way of having her near...
CM
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
4/14/09 What? Where?
OMGosh, the past 24 hours has been a wild ride of emotional torment and surprise revelations. Can't articulate it all just yet as I am still processing it, but will try to write it out tomorrow. (In part, I'm still not sure exactly what happened.)
CM
CM
Friday, April 10, 2009
4/10/09 All Things Considered...
April 10, 2009
"The be-all and end-all of life should not be to get rich, but to enrich the world." – Bertie Charles Forbes
Bertie Charles Forbes, known as B.C. Forbes, is remembered as the founder of the long-running Forbes magazine, aimed at investors. He was born in 1884 in Scotland. He worked as a reporter for a Dundee newspaper until 1901, when he moved to South Africa and founded a newspaper there; but he stayed just three years before moving to the United States, where he became a financial editor and columnist. His sons Bruce and Malcolm succeeded him as editors-in-chief of Forbes. He died in 1954.
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I've been online this morning searching out a new Nanny for the K family. I'm figuring on making it an expedient and smooth transition. I also hope S & C won't be too upset over the switch if I can be involved in helping solve their dilemma. The ubber good news is I think I've found somebody wonderful for them.
As to writing, I am going to have to channel my energies first into organizing channeling my energies. LOL I have so many projects going, they're starting to run together. Can't have that because then nothing gets my full hundred per.
Behind the Wall muses are over their snit and speaking to me again. Max has offered me his work: Mists of the Mind. He's lost interest in working out the revision, and he knew how much I enjoyed it. So he emailed me the other night to ask if I wanted it. At first I thought he was joking. After some back and forth, however, I realized he was quite serious, so I jumped on it. Currently, I'm going through the muse/writer intro process. Hopefully, we'll get along... uh, if my timidity doesn't put them off.
Further, I'm working on no less than three children stories, and business writing - as in job descriptions and brochure publishing, Letters of Introduction, Resume's, Curriculum Vitaes, and Letters of recommendation. I'm truly swamped!
It doesn't sound like much, but each thing is so important in its own right, it takes me forever to craft and edit each one. Oh, and then there are the daily reviews for WDC and Mainstream (Mainstream has been suffering, and indeed, it is my guilt over that, that has inspired me to compartmentalize my subjects, responsibilities, and assignments.) Hopefully the better organization will ease the burden and make for more polished products in all arenas.
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Easter is Sunday, and that means the family will all be together. *sigh* It's funny. Even though I was so sad when everyone went off to start their own lives, when we all get together, it's, well, it's so wild and crazy (to coin a phrase) that when it's over and the quiet comes, I can't, for the life of me fathom how I lived my every day with such bedlam around me. Say, you don't suppose this means I've gotten used to my oldest four not being here anymore? Naaaaaaaaaaaaah...!
CM
"The be-all and end-all of life should not be to get rich, but to enrich the world." – Bertie Charles Forbes
Bertie Charles Forbes, known as B.C. Forbes, is remembered as the founder of the long-running Forbes magazine, aimed at investors. He was born in 1884 in Scotland. He worked as a reporter for a Dundee newspaper until 1901, when he moved to South Africa and founded a newspaper there; but he stayed just three years before moving to the United States, where he became a financial editor and columnist. His sons Bruce and Malcolm succeeded him as editors-in-chief of Forbes. He died in 1954.
I've been online this morning searching out a new Nanny for the K family. I'm figuring on making it an expedient and smooth transition. I also hope S & C won't be too upset over the switch if I can be involved in helping solve their dilemma. The ubber good news is I think I've found somebody wonderful for them.
As to writing, I am going to have to channel my energies first into organizing channeling my energies. LOL I have so many projects going, they're starting to run together. Can't have that because then nothing gets my full hundred per.
Behind the Wall muses are over their snit and speaking to me again. Max has offered me his work: Mists of the Mind. He's lost interest in working out the revision, and he knew how much I enjoyed it. So he emailed me the other night to ask if I wanted it. At first I thought he was joking. After some back and forth, however, I realized he was quite serious, so I jumped on it. Currently, I'm going through the muse/writer intro process. Hopefully, we'll get along... uh, if my timidity doesn't put them off.
Further, I'm working on no less than three children stories, and business writing - as in job descriptions and brochure publishing, Letters of Introduction, Resume's, Curriculum Vitaes, and Letters of recommendation. I'm truly swamped!
It doesn't sound like much, but each thing is so important in its own right, it takes me forever to craft and edit each one. Oh, and then there are the daily reviews for WDC and Mainstream (Mainstream has been suffering, and indeed, it is my guilt over that, that has inspired me to compartmentalize my subjects, responsibilities, and assignments.) Hopefully the better organization will ease the burden and make for more polished products in all arenas.
Easter is Sunday, and that means the family will all be together. *sigh* It's funny. Even though I was so sad when everyone went off to start their own lives, when we all get together, it's, well, it's so wild and crazy (to coin a phrase) that when it's over and the quiet comes, I can't, for the life of me fathom how I lived my every day with such bedlam around me. Say, you don't suppose this means I've gotten used to my oldest four not being here anymore? Naaaaaaaaaaaaah...!
CM
Thursday, April 9, 2009
4/9/09 To Own Thine Self, Be True!
April 09, 2009
"I think the purpose of life is to be useful, to be responsible, to be honorable, to be compassionate. It is, after all, to matter: to count, to stand for something, to have made some difference that you lived at all." – Leo Rosten
Nothing special today. Still anguishing over the job situation... I'm not at all sure that the way CD wants me to handle all this is indeed responsible or compassionate. She serves an every-man-for-himself mentality. That is something I have never subscribed to. I was not raised that way, in spite of the years I spent in foster care. I never adopted that train of thought, but rather, I gleaned my lessons from Ronnie, who sacrificed himself on a daily basis to keep me free from harm.
I realize we must put away the things of childhood, but back then, I was convinced (and I guess I still am) he was an angel sent to me. I know it's naive, but I want to be that to others. I want to be the angel who made a difference in a family, to a child, to my friends...
How, then, can I remain true to myself if I turn around at this point in time and act otherwise. How then, can I suddenly become so self serving? There is no glory is manipulating others to serve my need for an income. I just don't think I could ever find happiness again if I use others, if I act like that now when things are bad for everyone. It's not who I am and not who I want to be.
CM
"I think the purpose of life is to be useful, to be responsible, to be honorable, to be compassionate. It is, after all, to matter: to count, to stand for something, to have made some difference that you lived at all." – Leo Rosten
Nothing special today. Still anguishing over the job situation... I'm not at all sure that the way CD wants me to handle all this is indeed responsible or compassionate. She serves an every-man-for-himself mentality. That is something I have never subscribed to. I was not raised that way, in spite of the years I spent in foster care. I never adopted that train of thought, but rather, I gleaned my lessons from Ronnie, who sacrificed himself on a daily basis to keep me free from harm.
I realize we must put away the things of childhood, but back then, I was convinced (and I guess I still am) he was an angel sent to me. I know it's naive, but I want to be that to others. I want to be the angel who made a difference in a family, to a child, to my friends...
How, then, can I remain true to myself if I turn around at this point in time and act otherwise. How then, can I suddenly become so self serving? There is no glory is manipulating others to serve my need for an income. I just don't think I could ever find happiness again if I use others, if I act like that now when things are bad for everyone. It's not who I am and not who I want to be.
CM
Wednesday, April 8, 2009
4/8/2009 Muse Abuse... or The mystery of the Wandering Muse!
Quote of the Day
"Passion, though a bad regulator, is a powerful spring." – Ralph Waldo Emerson
About Ralph Waldo Emerson
Ralph Waldo Emerson helped spark the transcendentalist movement with the essay Nature, which described his belief in the spiritual essence of humanity and the natural world. He was born in Boston in 1803. He was a Unitarian minister until he resigned in 1832 to become a philosopher and writer. He suffered the untimely deaths of many of his loved ones: three brothers, his first wife at age 20, and his eldest son at age five. Emerson died in 1882.
I chose this quote today because I've been concerned about having seemingly lost my passion for the story I had been living and breathing for this past three years. It's dried up. Gonzo. Kaput!
Yesterday, in lamenting its apparent demise to a friend, I became confused over how it all started in the first place, and I referred back to my online novel journal to jog my memory. I read how the story so vividly came to life in my head, that it awoke me form my sleep and sent me running to my keyboard in the pre-dawn quiet. What an exciting, exhilarating, inspiring moment of enlightenment, and, yes, renewed passion I experienced while tip-toeing through the memories!
It was indeed passion that stirred the cup of inspiration on that warm summer evening back in 2006, and gave birth to Logan and Cassie et al. And it was indeed passion that caused them to quiet in my mind and appear to run off perhaps to take up residence with someone else's muse. Now, albeit faintly, I can hear them chuckling. "You shouldn't have taken us for granted. If you behave, we'll come back and tell you the rest of the story..."
I'm deciding... LOL
CM
"Passion, though a bad regulator, is a powerful spring." – Ralph Waldo Emerson
About Ralph Waldo Emerson
Ralph Waldo Emerson helped spark the transcendentalist movement with the essay Nature, which described his belief in the spiritual essence of humanity and the natural world. He was born in Boston in 1803. He was a Unitarian minister until he resigned in 1832 to become a philosopher and writer. He suffered the untimely deaths of many of his loved ones: three brothers, his first wife at age 20, and his eldest son at age five. Emerson died in 1882.
I chose this quote today because I've been concerned about having seemingly lost my passion for the story I had been living and breathing for this past three years. It's dried up. Gonzo. Kaput!
Yesterday, in lamenting its apparent demise to a friend, I became confused over how it all started in the first place, and I referred back to my online novel journal to jog my memory. I read how the story so vividly came to life in my head, that it awoke me form my sleep and sent me running to my keyboard in the pre-dawn quiet. What an exciting, exhilarating, inspiring moment of enlightenment, and, yes, renewed passion I experienced while tip-toeing through the memories!
It was indeed passion that stirred the cup of inspiration on that warm summer evening back in 2006, and gave birth to Logan and Cassie et al. And it was indeed passion that caused them to quiet in my mind and appear to run off perhaps to take up residence with someone else's muse. Now, albeit faintly, I can hear them chuckling. "You shouldn't have taken us for granted. If you behave, we'll come back and tell you the rest of the story..."
I'm deciding... LOL
CM
Thursday, April 2, 2009
4/2/2009 Happy Days are Here Again?
Quote of the Day
"I have learned, as a rule of thumb, never to ask whether you can do something. Say, instead, that you are doing it. Then fasten your seat belt. The most remarkable things follow." – Julia Cameron
About Julia Cameron
American author Julia Cameron has become an icon in the creative community for her best-selling self-help book, The Artist's Way, which guides people through a series of simple but profound exercises to awaken their creativity. She grew up in Chicago and has been writing seriously since age 18. In addition to her 28 books, she has written plays, screenplays, and songs. She was married to film director Martin Scorsese and has one daughter. She currently lives in New York.
Well, this appears to be an affirmation that at least one of my ideas is a go! LOL
Oh hush! I did not need this to tell me that, but it's nice to open one's email first thing in the morning, all sleepy-eyed and groggy and read such a lovely, positive thought to start the day!
As if that's not enough, new neighbor, Jim Cramer, was on Morning Joe telling us all the worst is over and the Depression was short lived. Phew! I am so glad to know this!
CM
"I have learned, as a rule of thumb, never to ask whether you can do something. Say, instead, that you are doing it. Then fasten your seat belt. The most remarkable things follow." – Julia Cameron
About Julia Cameron
American author Julia Cameron has become an icon in the creative community for her best-selling self-help book, The Artist's Way, which guides people through a series of simple but profound exercises to awaken their creativity. She grew up in Chicago and has been writing seriously since age 18. In addition to her 28 books, she has written plays, screenplays, and songs. She was married to film director Martin Scorsese and has one daughter. She currently lives in New York.
Well, this appears to be an affirmation that at least one of my ideas is a go! LOL
Oh hush! I did not need this to tell me that, but it's nice to open one's email first thing in the morning, all sleepy-eyed and groggy and read such a lovely, positive thought to start the day!
As if that's not enough, new neighbor, Jim Cramer, was on Morning Joe telling us all the worst is over and the Depression was short lived. Phew! I am so glad to know this!
CM
Monday, March 30, 2009
3/30/2009 Well, duh!
This is from: Quote of the Day
"It is common sense to take a method and try it. If it fails, admit it frankly and try another. But above all, try something." – Franklin D. Roosevelt
About President Roosevelt:
Four-term American president Franklin Delano Roosevelt, known as FDR, pulled America out of the Great Depression and led the country during World War II. He was born in New York in 1882. His political career halted when a bout of polio paralyzed him from the waist down, but after learning to walk with leg braces, he became governor of New York and then president of the United States. His New Deal initiatives included Social Security, jobs programs, and collective bargaining. He died in 1945.
"It is common sense to take a method and try it. If it fails, admit it frankly and try another. But above all, try something." – Franklin D. Roosevelt
About President Roosevelt:
Four-term American president Franklin Delano Roosevelt, known as FDR, pulled America out of the Great Depression and led the country during World War II. He was born in New York in 1882. His political career halted when a bout of polio paralyzed him from the waist down, but after learning to walk with leg braces, he became governor of New York and then president of the United States. His New Deal initiatives included Social Security, jobs programs, and collective bargaining. He died in 1945.
Saturday, March 28, 2009
3/28/2009 Odds and Ends!
As always, or most always, I am writing about yesterday because I write in the morning.
Said farewell to Barb as I was leaving for work, and she for the Paramus Container Store to meet up with Joan. She was planning to meet up with another friend who is also her accountant, Annette, I think, and concluding her journey back to P-Town by stopping at Paul and Al's to help celebrate Paul's birthday.
I was sorry to see our visit end, but glad to get back to normal - and gladder that I wasn't the one doing the driving for a change. Had a very productive day with SJ and O, as he is coming around nicely. Hysterics and bad behavior are being replaced slow and sure by fun and frolic and good behavior. It's good for everyone and most satisfying for me. (Who wouldn't savor being the catalyst for positive change in a situation?)
At 4pm I left telling Steve Sr., that I needed to get home to welcome Soph back from her trip to Disney World. What I left out was that she was not scheduled to arrive until around 10pm. I did that because I had a week's worth of chores to whip into shape before Soph and CD arrived.
Walked into the house with clear motivation and mission - like a tornado, if you must know. By 4:30 I was ironing full-tilt. I managed to wrap up all the laundry for the week (including my own - and the guest room bedding washed, ironed, and bed made) by 8pm. It was exhilarating to work that hard, that fast! LOL
Later, I phoned what I refer to as an eyore-friend to confirm a weekend get-together and she unceremoniously regaled me, for over an hour, with a new-improved reprise of her favorite chant from the 80's: the my-life-sucks-but-I'd-rather-complain-about-it-than-actually-do-anything-about-it chant.
Not for nothing, but I'm having a rough go of it too. Uh, so is everyone I know, at least in some capacity. I have sympathy for anyone and everyone who is being victimized by this scandalous mess we're in -- except for those who refuse to do anything to make their lives better. To work as hard as they have to in order to manage their situation. We're ALL doing things we don't want to do. Poppy-cock! Enough about this.
Today, I'm going to stay home and have some peace and quiet. Enjoyed the week with Barb here, but it took a lot out of me. (In a good way, but I am tired.)
Blast! I am out of my heart meds. Called the doctor to refill my prescriptions. I'll have to venture out to collect them. Pfffffffft! LOL
Say, I've got a great idea! While, I'm off to the pharmacist, why not read this interesting article (by Matt Taibbi) that I received from a friend of mine. The Big Takeover. You owe it to yourselves to give it a look-see. Taibbi writes for Rolling Stone and is a frequent guest on Bill Maher and Jon Stewart. That my Republican friend is the one who forwarded it speaks volumes. This piece of writing is a major examination of what has gone wrong in the economy and really explains the situation in very understandable terms.
It's long. Take a bathroom break and get a beverage.
All for now.
CM
Said farewell to Barb as I was leaving for work, and she for the Paramus Container Store to meet up with Joan. She was planning to meet up with another friend who is also her accountant, Annette, I think, and concluding her journey back to P-Town by stopping at Paul and Al's to help celebrate Paul's birthday.
I was sorry to see our visit end, but glad to get back to normal - and gladder that I wasn't the one doing the driving for a change. Had a very productive day with SJ and O, as he is coming around nicely. Hysterics and bad behavior are being replaced slow and sure by fun and frolic and good behavior. It's good for everyone and most satisfying for me. (Who wouldn't savor being the catalyst for positive change in a situation?)
At 4pm I left telling Steve Sr., that I needed to get home to welcome Soph back from her trip to Disney World. What I left out was that she was not scheduled to arrive until around 10pm. I did that because I had a week's worth of chores to whip into shape before Soph and CD arrived.
Walked into the house with clear motivation and mission - like a tornado, if you must know. By 4:30 I was ironing full-tilt. I managed to wrap up all the laundry for the week (including my own - and the guest room bedding washed, ironed, and bed made) by 8pm. It was exhilarating to work that hard, that fast! LOL
Later, I phoned what I refer to as an eyore-friend to confirm a weekend get-together and she unceremoniously regaled me, for over an hour, with a new-improved reprise of her favorite chant from the 80's: the my-life-sucks-but-I'd-rather-complain-about-it-than-actually-do-anything-about-it chant.
Not for nothing, but I'm having a rough go of it too. Uh, so is everyone I know, at least in some capacity. I have sympathy for anyone and everyone who is being victimized by this scandalous mess we're in -- except for those who refuse to do anything to make their lives better. To work as hard as they have to in order to manage their situation. We're ALL doing things we don't want to do. Poppy-cock! Enough about this.
Today, I'm going to stay home and have some peace and quiet. Enjoyed the week with Barb here, but it took a lot out of me. (In a good way, but I am tired.)
Blast! I am out of my heart meds. Called the doctor to refill my prescriptions. I'll have to venture out to collect them. Pfffffffft! LOL
Say, I've got a great idea! While, I'm off to the pharmacist, why not read this interesting article (by Matt Taibbi) that I received from a friend of mine. The Big Takeover. You owe it to yourselves to give it a look-see. Taibbi writes for Rolling Stone and is a frequent guest on Bill Maher and Jon Stewart. That my Republican friend is the one who forwarded it speaks volumes. This piece of writing is a major examination of what has gone wrong in the economy and really explains the situation in very understandable terms.
It's long. Take a bathroom break and get a beverage.
All for now.
CM
Friday, March 27, 2009
3/27/2009 We've Got History!
Worked all day and met up with Barb and Judy for dinner at the Skyline Diner in Wanaque! What a hoot!
We arrived from three very separate directions and were settled by 5:30. Left there at 11pm after having made cozy friends of our waitress, Meghan, as well as the diner's owner and other staff.
They admired our collective demeanor and audibly acknowledged their enjoyment of our enjoying one another's company. The owner stopped us as we were leaving to share that he was honored we chose the Skyline to have our tri-state get together.
It was really sweet and a terrific memory which we agreed we'll talk about on future such meetings.
All for now... more to come.
CM
We arrived from three very separate directions and were settled by 5:30. Left there at 11pm after having made cozy friends of our waitress, Meghan, as well as the diner's owner and other staff.
They admired our collective demeanor and audibly acknowledged their enjoyment of our enjoying one another's company. The owner stopped us as we were leaving to share that he was honored we chose the Skyline to have our tri-state get together.
It was really sweet and a terrific memory which we agreed we'll talk about on future such meetings.
All for now... more to come.
CM
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
MArker 3/25/2009
Barb and I decided to wing it and chance seeing a play today. Joan allowed as to how she had the day off and agreed to meet us at the Ticketrex in Times Square. I'd stated I was only interested in something that was going to entertain and lift spirits. The gals nodded their approval and we set out to obtain entry to either a Comedy or a Musical.
Lucky us! We snagged 7th row tickets for "Blithe Spirit" currently starring Broadway legends, Angela Lansbury, Rupert Everett, and the wonderful Christine Ebersol! (I was beside myself!) The Schubert Theater, like most Brodaway houses has no bad seats, but once again, we got wonderful!
Written by Noel Coward, the script was witty and filled with quips, double entandre and innuendo. Once placed in the hands of theater royalty such as these, it was molded into a thing of classic beauty! Slapstick beauty, that is. Angela Lansbury is regal and absolutely timeless. She moved around the stage completely belying her years, and every syllable she uttered was shear delight! Combine her eloquence with the impeccable comedic timing of Everett and Ebersol and you have struck gold.
I was so grateful for their talent and the laughter they gave us, I wanted to hug them all!
If you live near the City, hurry and get your tickets for this timely shot in the arm. You'll have your first laugh within seconds of Curtain with no let-up until standing ovation and final bows.
What a perfect way to spend the day!
All for now,
Cm
Lucky us! We snagged 7th row tickets for "Blithe Spirit" currently starring Broadway legends, Angela Lansbury, Rupert Everett, and the wonderful Christine Ebersol! (I was beside myself!) The Schubert Theater, like most Brodaway houses has no bad seats, but once again, we got wonderful!
Written by Noel Coward, the script was witty and filled with quips, double entandre and innuendo. Once placed in the hands of theater royalty such as these, it was molded into a thing of classic beauty! Slapstick beauty, that is. Angela Lansbury is regal and absolutely timeless. She moved around the stage completely belying her years, and every syllable she uttered was shear delight! Combine her eloquence with the impeccable comedic timing of Everett and Ebersol and you have struck gold.
I was so grateful for their talent and the laughter they gave us, I wanted to hug them all!
If you live near the City, hurry and get your tickets for this timely shot in the arm. You'll have your first laugh within seconds of Curtain with no let-up until standing ovation and final bows.
What a perfect way to spend the day!
All for now,
Cm
Sunday, March 22, 2009
3/22/2009 The Way Things Go!
Today did not go the way it was supposed to at all.
Thursday, I received a phone call form a woman in Madison needing after school help for her three little ones. (I love these stay-at-home-moms who have no clue how to balance their time and handle their kids.)
Anyway, we set up a tentative meeting for today and she was to phone me this morning to organize the time and place.
This morning when I awoke, there was a message on my gmail account that I have some mail at Sittercity. I figured it was Tiffany from Madison, but I was incorrect. Instead it was a pet sitting inquiry from some folks in Colonia, just down the road from where Eddie and Helen used to live. After several emails and a delightful phone conversation, we agreed to meet this afternoon. Holy cow! I met some soul mates! We had so much in common, it's a wonder we've never met before! What a fun afternoon! For a minute, I considered offering to watch their 7 pets (1 old beagle mix, named Katie and 6 seriously laid back felines) for nothing. But I snapped out of it. I'm not stupid. Money is money, and right now I'll take it where I can get it. The hours will tie me up, so I had to ask for my top scale. The family name is Dubin, Ross and Susan. They seem wonderful, and the pets are a delight. It's going to be a good thing.)
Taking Carol D. and Sophie to the airport in the morning. Barb will arrive late afternoon / early evening. We're going to meet up in Wanaque at our favorite restaurant up there - for old times' sake. I'm really looking forward to this visit!
Otherwise, today was quiet. Tiffany, the stay-at-home-mom in Madison, never phoned. Just as well.
All for now,
CM
Thursday, I received a phone call form a woman in Madison needing after school help for her three little ones. (I love these stay-at-home-moms who have no clue how to balance their time and handle their kids.)
Anyway, we set up a tentative meeting for today and she was to phone me this morning to organize the time and place.
This morning when I awoke, there was a message on my gmail account that I have some mail at Sittercity. I figured it was Tiffany from Madison, but I was incorrect. Instead it was a pet sitting inquiry from some folks in Colonia, just down the road from where Eddie and Helen used to live. After several emails and a delightful phone conversation, we agreed to meet this afternoon. Holy cow! I met some soul mates! We had so much in common, it's a wonder we've never met before! What a fun afternoon! For a minute, I considered offering to watch their 7 pets (1 old beagle mix, named Katie and 6 seriously laid back felines) for nothing. But I snapped out of it. I'm not stupid. Money is money, and right now I'll take it where I can get it. The hours will tie me up, so I had to ask for my top scale. The family name is Dubin, Ross and Susan. They seem wonderful, and the pets are a delight. It's going to be a good thing.)
Taking Carol D. and Sophie to the airport in the morning. Barb will arrive late afternoon / early evening. We're going to meet up in Wanaque at our favorite restaurant up there - for old times' sake. I'm really looking forward to this visit!
Otherwise, today was quiet. Tiffany, the stay-at-home-mom in Madison, never phoned. Just as well.
All for now,
CM
Saturday, March 21, 2009
Numbers, numbers everywhere! 3/21/2009
Saturday-
Weather today is predicted to be more spring-like with temps in the 50s. Trees are budding, and robins have arrived. Chipmunks and squirrels are scurrying about, and fawns and goslings have begin to appear everywhere. The flora reveals include some crocus and daffodils.
My day will consist of preparing for Barb's scheduled arrival, and trying to negotiate the Sleep Number Bed. Something's gone wrong with the pump, and I cannot seem to fix or adjust it. Pfffffffft!
Luckily, I do have two spare pumps. A few weeks after I purchased the bed, the pump stopped working. Although it was a bona-fide argument to get it, the warranty allowed for a new one. Unfortunately, Customer Service informed me it would take three to six weeks to arrive.
"But without the pump," I said, trying my darndest to reason with Customer Service Rep., "I have the sleeper-sofa. It must be deflated in the morning and reinflated at night. Without the pump, I have no bed." Customer Service Rep apologized for my inconvenience and said he could make no promises regarding the ETA of my replacement pump. I asked for a supervisor who was equally apologetic... and equally ineffective.
Next up, I went to the store and spoke to the manager, who gave me a similar answer. In a word, this irritated me. I mean, I'd forked over thirty-two hundred dollars, less than three weeks earlier for this purchase, and was now left with no bed on which to sleep. What rattled me the most was my inability to comprehand why the replacement pump could not be shipped by overnight express. I do understand that sometimes things happen, and while I did not like it, I could certainly bear one night on the, uh, couch. But these folks were not even pretending to meet me half way!
No amount of reasoning was getting me anywhere. So I took a deep breath and did what any woman worth her salt would do. With no small degree of smugness, I picked up a pen and insisted everyone involved give me their names. I then informed Store Manager it was my intent to purchase some space on the Internet, design a website, and title it thusly: "Before You Purchase a Sleep Number Bed, Read This!"
A funny thing happened. Store Manager suddenly remembered he had an old-model pump in the back room that he could lend me until my new one arrived. Go figure!
I left the store with the perfectly functional, old-model pump in hand. (If I could have high-fived myself, I would have.)
An even funnier thing happened. New pump arrived by... guess. No really... Guess! Overnight Express!
When I returned to the store, the next day, to return the out-dated-but-functional pump, Store Manager didn't want it back. He said they probably couldn't sell it, and he was glad to have the shelf space for newer, more effecient models. So I have that old one on my shelf. As luck would have it, once I installed the new pump, I asked Mr. Wizard to check out the original, and he managed to repair it. So I kept that one as well, and that's how I happen to have two spares! HA!
It's going to be a physical hassle to make the exchange today, on account of the space constraints of the room and needing to disassemble the sofe to complete the task, but I'll get 'er done! I'm like that extra pump: old and out-dated, but incredibly funational, and damned determined!
By the way, in spite of the pump debacle, I seriously love my Sleep Number Bed. Several of my friends have purchased them on my say-so, and they thank me all the time for telling them about it. I'm confident that if something really did happen to it, I'd probably want another. It's been three years, now, and it's definitely the best bed I have ever had, uh, as long as the pump works...
All for now.
CM
Weather today is predicted to be more spring-like with temps in the 50s. Trees are budding, and robins have arrived. Chipmunks and squirrels are scurrying about, and fawns and goslings have begin to appear everywhere. The flora reveals include some crocus and daffodils.
My day will consist of preparing for Barb's scheduled arrival, and trying to negotiate the Sleep Number Bed. Something's gone wrong with the pump, and I cannot seem to fix or adjust it. Pfffffffft!
Luckily, I do have two spare pumps. A few weeks after I purchased the bed, the pump stopped working. Although it was a bona-fide argument to get it, the warranty allowed for a new one. Unfortunately, Customer Service informed me it would take three to six weeks to arrive.
"But without the pump," I said, trying my darndest to reason with Customer Service Rep., "I have the sleeper-sofa. It must be deflated in the morning and reinflated at night. Without the pump, I have no bed." Customer Service Rep apologized for my inconvenience and said he could make no promises regarding the ETA of my replacement pump. I asked for a supervisor who was equally apologetic... and equally ineffective.
Next up, I went to the store and spoke to the manager, who gave me a similar answer. In a word, this irritated me. I mean, I'd forked over thirty-two hundred dollars, less than three weeks earlier for this purchase, and was now left with no bed on which to sleep. What rattled me the most was my inability to comprehand why the replacement pump could not be shipped by overnight express. I do understand that sometimes things happen, and while I did not like it, I could certainly bear one night on the, uh, couch. But these folks were not even pretending to meet me half way!
No amount of reasoning was getting me anywhere. So I took a deep breath and did what any woman worth her salt would do. With no small degree of smugness, I picked up a pen and insisted everyone involved give me their names. I then informed Store Manager it was my intent to purchase some space on the Internet, design a website, and title it thusly: "Before You Purchase a Sleep Number Bed, Read This!"
A funny thing happened. Store Manager suddenly remembered he had an old-model pump in the back room that he could lend me until my new one arrived. Go figure!
I left the store with the perfectly functional, old-model pump in hand. (If I could have high-fived myself, I would have.)
An even funnier thing happened. New pump arrived by... guess. No really... Guess! Overnight Express!
When I returned to the store, the next day, to return the out-dated-but-functional pump, Store Manager didn't want it back. He said they probably couldn't sell it, and he was glad to have the shelf space for newer, more effecient models. So I have that old one on my shelf. As luck would have it, once I installed the new pump, I asked Mr. Wizard to check out the original, and he managed to repair it. So I kept that one as well, and that's how I happen to have two spares! HA!
It's going to be a physical hassle to make the exchange today, on account of the space constraints of the room and needing to disassemble the sofe to complete the task, but I'll get 'er done! I'm like that extra pump: old and out-dated, but incredibly funational, and damned determined!
By the way, in spite of the pump debacle, I seriously love my Sleep Number Bed. Several of my friends have purchased them on my say-so, and they thank me all the time for telling them about it. I'm confident that if something really did happen to it, I'd probably want another. It's been three years, now, and it's definitely the best bed I have ever had, uh, as long as the pump works...
All for now.
CM
Friday, March 20, 2009
Thursday, March 19, 2009
3/19/2009 Taking Crissy to Work Day!
Chrissy came to work at the Kobawi's with me today. It was really sweet. Of course, while the wee ones were napping,she was bored senseless. So what did she do? She sat down and wrote a story about two kids (about her age) who are best riends. They go swimming in the ocean while on vacation with their parents. The kids dive into the deep water and enter an undersea world where they encounter one mystery adventure after another. It's very well written, and the plot is stunning! She asked me to edit it for her. Hahaha! I loved it! It's lucky I could not operate their whacky direct TV for her, and I would not allow her to play internet games on their PC, even though they had said it would be all right. (One never knows what incidious bots, viruses, or other weird spy programs those free sites pack into your PC while you're innocently enjoying their wares!) And she was great with the kids too... I'll do something wonderful for her!
The Nanny agency left me a message stating the husband and wife doctors in Upper Saddle River wanted me, but I remain convinced that I would not be happy working 6 days a week with no break. I'd be on duty 24/7, and, to be frank, the pay they're offering for all they need is only so/so. So, (LOL) I phoned the agancy while I was on the way home and said it wasn't a good enough match, and officially turned it down. I don't mind hard work, in fact, I enjoy it; but everyone needs down time to be refreshed, and these two parents sounded like they needed a nanny for themselves! Been there, done that, honey!
All for now...
CM
The Nanny agency left me a message stating the husband and wife doctors in Upper Saddle River wanted me, but I remain convinced that I would not be happy working 6 days a week with no break. I'd be on duty 24/7, and, to be frank, the pay they're offering for all they need is only so/so. So, (LOL) I phoned the agancy while I was on the way home and said it wasn't a good enough match, and officially turned it down. I don't mind hard work, in fact, I enjoy it; but everyone needs down time to be refreshed, and these two parents sounded like they needed a nanny for themselves! Been there, done that, honey!
All for now...
CM
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Such is life, and even sucher!
Interesting.
Got a lead form a friend of CD's. Funnily enough, the women who needs some childcare happens to be someone with whom I've already connected through Sittercity. The hours and pay are good and it might just work!
I'm putting it on the table. Calling it to myself, that I want to be able to stay with the Kobawi's on Thursdays and Fridays. And I'd like to fill in the rest of the week to match the remaining pay I'd otherwise lose. Actually, let me restate that. I'd like to make MORE than I am currently making, so I can stash it away. AND, of course, I'd still like my time with Sophie!
This could be the ultimate win/win situation! I know I can find something. Just need to stay connected and not give up or settle for less. I must not get nervous. Have faith I can achieve the elusive perfect nanny position.
All for now.
CM
"Such is life, and even sucher." is my friend Angelika's favorite personal quote. Today, it fit!
Got a lead form a friend of CD's. Funnily enough, the women who needs some childcare happens to be someone with whom I've already connected through Sittercity. The hours and pay are good and it might just work!
I'm putting it on the table. Calling it to myself, that I want to be able to stay with the Kobawi's on Thursdays and Fridays. And I'd like to fill in the rest of the week to match the remaining pay I'd otherwise lose. Actually, let me restate that. I'd like to make MORE than I am currently making, so I can stash it away. AND, of course, I'd still like my time with Sophie!
This could be the ultimate win/win situation! I know I can find something. Just need to stay connected and not give up or settle for less. I must not get nervous. Have faith I can achieve the elusive perfect nanny position.
All for now.
CM
"Such is life, and even sucher." is my friend Angelika's favorite personal quote. Today, it fit!
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
No Luck O' The Irish for me today... 3/17/2009
The winners of the Quotation Inspiration Contest were posted today, and I wasn't one of them. *snap*
BUT! The good news is Tim won second place with is clever yarn, Mr. God Gets Creative! It's a funny story with a most inventive bit of quip.
Anyway, I'm really happy for him, but I must admit to being a bit bummed for Max and myself. *sigh*
While I'm whining, I might add I still haven't won the lottery. Wassup wit dat?!
Pfffffft!
Had my Sophie with me all day. We went to the Nautilus for berakfast and then to St. Huberts to look at some shelter dogs. Found this wonderful little papillion (a real fur-ball) named Kara Marie. Black and white wa she, and we decided her name should be OREO. Sophie and I played with her for a time, and we decided to give adopting her some serious thought. Who knows. Maybe that little fluff ball is the luck we seek.
Also, I had my 6 week check-up with Dr. Jeffries today. I've gained 6 lbs, and my BP and cholesterol are both higher. She increased both meds and added that if I lose some weight, those numbers will drop on their own and we can lighten up - maybe even dump the meds! If that ain't incentive, I don't know what is! Especially if one considers not just the health bene's but also the money involved!
I honestly have no feelings about the health bene's, but the money speaks to me! Isn't that weird?
I've heard from Dakota Nanny. Still not too impressed with them. On the other hand, I have also heard from ABC Nanny. WOW - extremely professional! What a difference between one agency and the other! They want me to come in on Saturday for a face to face interviww. We'll see how it goes.
Lastly, I called Claire C., and she said that Kerry from the Upper Saddle River agency, Nanny Care and More, phoned her. I feel it was inappropriate of Kerry to do that when I had specified that I had no interest in the job she sent me on - and further specified I did not want my references pestered with unnecessary calls! However, I've decided to give her the benefit of the doubt. Maybe she was simply getting all her ducks in a row. Although, CD said, in no uncertain terms, that Kerry phoned her as well and was not impressive at all. In fact, CD, said Kerry was extremely unprofessional and that the reference interview only took about three minutes.
Chrissy wants to come to work with me on Thursday. I phoned Cheryl to ask if it was all right, and she was fine - even enthusiastic about it. That's good. She's so nice... I am so glad I found them. Working for them is such a pleasure!
All for today.
CM
BUT! The good news is Tim won second place with is clever yarn, Mr. God Gets Creative! It's a funny story with a most inventive bit of quip.
Anyway, I'm really happy for him, but I must admit to being a bit bummed for Max and myself. *sigh*
While I'm whining, I might add I still haven't won the lottery. Wassup wit dat?!
Pfffffft!
Had my Sophie with me all day. We went to the Nautilus for berakfast and then to St. Huberts to look at some shelter dogs. Found this wonderful little papillion (a real fur-ball) named Kara Marie. Black and white wa she, and we decided her name should be OREO. Sophie and I played with her for a time, and we decided to give adopting her some serious thought. Who knows. Maybe that little fluff ball is the luck we seek.
Also, I had my 6 week check-up with Dr. Jeffries today. I've gained 6 lbs, and my BP and cholesterol are both higher. She increased both meds and added that if I lose some weight, those numbers will drop on their own and we can lighten up - maybe even dump the meds! If that ain't incentive, I don't know what is! Especially if one considers not just the health bene's but also the money involved!
I honestly have no feelings about the health bene's, but the money speaks to me! Isn't that weird?
I've heard from Dakota Nanny. Still not too impressed with them. On the other hand, I have also heard from ABC Nanny. WOW - extremely professional! What a difference between one agency and the other! They want me to come in on Saturday for a face to face interviww. We'll see how it goes.
Lastly, I called Claire C., and she said that Kerry from the Upper Saddle River agency, Nanny Care and More, phoned her. I feel it was inappropriate of Kerry to do that when I had specified that I had no interest in the job she sent me on - and further specified I did not want my references pestered with unnecessary calls! However, I've decided to give her the benefit of the doubt. Maybe she was simply getting all her ducks in a row. Although, CD said, in no uncertain terms, that Kerry phoned her as well and was not impressive at all. In fact, CD, said Kerry was extremely unprofessional and that the reference interview only took about three minutes.
Chrissy wants to come to work with me on Thursday. I phoned Cheryl to ask if it was all right, and she was fine - even enthusiastic about it. That's good. She's so nice... I am so glad I found them. Working for them is such a pleasure!
All for today.
CM
Saturday, March 7, 2009
Sunny Daze! 3/7/2009
We are having a beautiful day!
Temperatures started to rise yesterday, and today they are set to go into the sixties, with long periods of sunny skies, peppered by drifiting clouds.
I am beside myself with glee!
Had some fun on Facebook yesterday afternoon while the little ones were asleep. I had gone on my acount just to admit a new friend as, er, a friend, and discovered over twenty-five requests that had been sitting there. Once I started to play with it, I couldn't stop! Had a blast and am now looking forward to using it to spy on, *cough* uh, I mean, catch up with all my pals!
Steven J. was much better yesterday. (Cheryl spoke candidly to me in the morning about some arguing she and Steve have been caught up in and her concerns that SJ sensed the tension - my guess is the economy's getting to them, like everyone else.) I figured it was something like this. SJ's such a good boy; for him to be so naughty was just plain odd. Now that we have a handle on what might be bothering him, we have some direction on how to make things better for the little guy.
All for now.
CM
Temperatures started to rise yesterday, and today they are set to go into the sixties, with long periods of sunny skies, peppered by drifiting clouds.
I am beside myself with glee!
Had some fun on Facebook yesterday afternoon while the little ones were asleep. I had gone on my acount just to admit a new friend as, er, a friend, and discovered over twenty-five requests that had been sitting there. Once I started to play with it, I couldn't stop! Had a blast and am now looking forward to using it to spy on, *cough* uh, I mean, catch up with all my pals!
Steven J. was much better yesterday. (Cheryl spoke candidly to me in the morning about some arguing she and Steve have been caught up in and her concerns that SJ sensed the tension - my guess is the economy's getting to them, like everyone else.) I figured it was something like this. SJ's such a good boy; for him to be so naughty was just plain odd. Now that we have a handle on what might be bothering him, we have some direction on how to make things better for the little guy.
All for now.
CM
Monday, March 2, 2009
The Way Things Are, Cliches and All! 3/2/09
"Life is not the way it's supposed to be. It's the way it is. The way you cope with it is what makes the difference." – Virginia Satir
Okay, so we've made a mess of it...
The bottom line, when all is said and done, is this: the material goods we'll have won or lost won't matter. How we handled it all is what will be remembered. Did we pull together and roll up our sleeves with the pro-active, go-get-'em determination that has always made America great, or did we merely survive? Did we crumble and whine our way through the hard times, or did we stand tall, take ownership of our misdeeds, flex our shoulders, crack our collective knuckles, and straighten it out?
This is the example, the legacy, the history! The make-it-or-break-it we are preparing to leave our children.
Rather than stumble around in the dark while we wait for someone else to shine the light at the end of the proverbial tunnel, I suggest we become the light shinning from within the tunnel! I mean, why wait until the end for illumination; that's hindsight! It's also bullshit! We know where we are, and we know how we got here!. Who better, then, to know (and show) the way out! Let's pick up the lemons we've dropped and make thirst-quenching lemonade worth savoring.
Let's embrace this adventure with utter disregard for its inconvenience! Let's rub our hands together and ride it like the roller coaster it is! We'll come out of it stronger and closer as a nation than we'd ever imagined we could! More importantly, we'll present our children and their children's children with a sense of pride that will empower them to soar at levels we cannot now fathom!
CM
Remembering childhood friends, twins, Guy & Bruce Kennedy...
Okay, so we've made a mess of it...
The bottom line, when all is said and done, is this: the material goods we'll have won or lost won't matter. How we handled it all is what will be remembered. Did we pull together and roll up our sleeves with the pro-active, go-get-'em determination that has always made America great, or did we merely survive? Did we crumble and whine our way through the hard times, or did we stand tall, take ownership of our misdeeds, flex our shoulders, crack our collective knuckles, and straighten it out?
This is the example, the legacy, the history! The make-it-or-break-it we are preparing to leave our children.
Rather than stumble around in the dark while we wait for someone else to shine the light at the end of the proverbial tunnel, I suggest we become the light shinning from within the tunnel! I mean, why wait until the end for illumination; that's hindsight! It's also bullshit! We know where we are, and we know how we got here!. Who better, then, to know (and show) the way out! Let's pick up the lemons we've dropped and make thirst-quenching lemonade worth savoring.
Let's embrace this adventure with utter disregard for its inconvenience! Let's rub our hands together and ride it like the roller coaster it is! We'll come out of it stronger and closer as a nation than we'd ever imagined we could! More importantly, we'll present our children and their children's children with a sense of pride that will empower them to soar at levels we cannot now fathom!
CM
Remembering childhood friends, twins, Guy & Bruce Kennedy...
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Good Friends and Electronics (2.24.09)
This past Saturday, I lost a completed review and got so angry I smashed the papertowel holder down on the counter and accidentally smashed my iPhone that was sitting there - unbeknownst to me! Today my heater quit working, and last Saturday, Valentine's Day, my DVD player quit. Whassup with the electronics?
I replaced the DVD player for $40, but the review and the phone are gonners. Looks like the heater is a gonner too! Shit!
On an up note, Max and I finished our short story collaboration, Bluetooth Blues, and I officially entered it into the contest today. It was so much fun to write side by side with Max! And Tim's unwavering support was nothing less than stunning. He had written a story of his own for this contest, and we are competing against him! What a great friend he is; a gentleman and a genuinely honest person who truly wants the best for us, even if it means he might lose to us. WOW! With friends like this who needs electronics anyway! Pfffffffft.
CM :)
I replaced the DVD player for $40, but the review and the phone are gonners. Looks like the heater is a gonner too! Shit!
On an up note, Max and I finished our short story collaboration, Bluetooth Blues, and I officially entered it into the contest today. It was so much fun to write side by side with Max! And Tim's unwavering support was nothing less than stunning. He had written a story of his own for this contest, and we are competing against him! What a great friend he is; a gentleman and a genuinely honest person who truly wants the best for us, even if it means he might lose to us. WOW! With friends like this who needs electronics anyway! Pfffffffft.
CM :)
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